There is a song byRich Mullins called: Brothers Keeper and it says:

My friends ain’t the way I wish they were
They’re just the way they are
And I will be my brothers keeper
Not the one who judges him
I won’t despise him for his weakness
I won’t regard him for his strength
I won’t take away his freedom
I will help him learn to stand

And I thought that this is good and helpful so I wanted to share it.