This World didn’t come by accident it is a gift from God.

However many people wonder and think that they have to make something of themselves as if the fact that they exist at all is not a miracle in and of itself.

And people think that the only benefit to life that they can bring is if they make something “special” of themselves as if they aren’t special already. And if they weren’t special already then Jesus would not have said this:

Matt 19:14

14 Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."
NIV

Just because you have nothing more to offer than a child, you’re special to God.

And to determine “what you have to do so you can become more” can’t come to a child. You have to grow up to do that and children sometimes die as children.

And there must be some value in them to God or they wouldn’t be in Heaven. And if that were not true then Jesus would not have said it.

So, back off and relax because the Kingdom of Heaven was built for such as this. Jesus said so.