I have something VERY IMPORTANT to tell you so please read on:
Rom 8:7-8
7 Focusing on the self is the opposite of focusing on God. Anyone completely absorbed in self ignores God, ends up thinking more about self than God. That person ignores who God is and what he is doing. 8 And God isn't pleased at being ignored.

And what does our culture teach us? THAT YOU CAN DO IT! YOU! That’s focusing on yourself which ignores God!