Mark 8:34
34 Calling the crowd to join his disciples, Jesus said, "Anyone who intends to come with me has to let me lead. You're not in the driver's seat; I am.

You’re not in the driver’s seat! Jesus is!

For most people this is not ok because people want to be in the driver’s seat and they want to be the driver. That’s why I’m where and how I am because I can’t drive so God drives for me.